Be Wise Enough to Know When to Quit: Reflections on Wealth and Balance

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Proverbs 23:4-5 says: 

“Don’t wear yourself out trying to get rich. Be wise enough to know when to quit. In the blink of an eye, wealth disappears, for it will sprout wings and fly away like an eagle.”

Lately, I have been reading the book of Proverbs, and when I came across this verse, I found myself reading it over and over again. I began to ponder and deeply reflect on its meaning. Aren’t we taught in the same book of Proverbs to work hard for wealth, and that riches are not for the lazy? So, what does this really mean? Every day, people go out to work, and many are creating multiple sources of income. People work overnight, trying to meet deadlines or bring forth new ideas and strategies, pouring time and effort into their tasks. While I’m still absorbing this lesson, I’d like to share some thoughts—not just mine, but what the Word is saying.

There are downsides to exhausting yourself with work, and I’ll point out a few. The excessive desire for something, especially money, often leads to an even greater thirst for it. As humans, we tend to always want more, which can result in greed and selfishness. This can come at the cost of others, including your loved ones and even yourself. Once this drive brings you the riches you seek, pride often follows, blinding you to how you spend. Since money is like a seed, if it’s not sown on fertile ground, it’s lost. Wealth can also fuel a lifestyle that feeds your ego and inflates your pride, as money has a funny way of creeping into one’s head.

Another downside is losing balance in life. Many people recognize poverty as something to avoid, myself included, and they become so immersed in their work that they lose sight of their spiritual, emotional, and physical well-being, as well as their relationships. They become masters at their jobs but fail in other areas of their lives—sometimes to the detriment of their health and family. What is the point of making money if you can’t even take a vacation to unwind, relax, and refresh yourself? Some people lose good friends and valuable relationships in their pursuit of wealth. I’m not referring to friends who don’t share your vision or are content with mediocrity. I’m talking about friends who share your values but may walk away due to your arrogant or self-absorbed behavior. Money can get into your head, making you blind to the value of true friendships. It’s often only when a crisis hits that you realize how important those people were.

A desperate desire to become rich can also cloud your wisdom. As 1 Timothy 6:9-10 explains: “Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.” This serves as a reminder to be cautious during our seasons of wealth-building. God desires His children to prosper, but not at the expense of their well-being. Remember, the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. In conclusion, the key to avoiding exhaustion in the pursuit of wealth is to first align with God’s will and purpose for your life. Understand your vision and goals. Regularly take a step back to realign your objectives, evaluate yourself, and ensure there is inner joy and satisfaction. Strive for balance in all areas of life. If you have mastered your work, begin gaining knowledge in relationships, marriage, health, emotional resilience, and spiritual growth. These aspects are just as important as building wealth, for true riches and prosperity begin in the mind

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5 Comments on “Be Wise Enough to Know When to Quit: Reflections on Wealth and Balance”

  1. I really took time to go through and it has enlightened me so much, I love the part you said “in pursuits of wealth is to first alight with God’s will and purpose for our lives”. Thank you and I’m looking forward to gaining more insights in your next script.🫶🏼

    1. Thank you Felix, for your kind words and for taking the time to read my blog! I’m glad my post resonated with you and I look forward to sharing more insights in the future

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